Part X: X
No matter what one thinks or interacts with the youth: whether they should be sheltered or exposed, be spoon-fed or independent, or be treated like prince /princesses or like brats, we all owe a responsibility towards them.
hadith
Not only because they are the next generations who will carry the torch, but also because they intrinsically rely on us to guide them. As such, adults play a significant role in setting an example for the youth.
Just as it is never too early to teach children language, morals, and school-related subjects, it is also never too early to teach them about religion - albeit they should be taught as befitting their learning pace. Especially living in a digital age where screens are loaded with subliminal messages and harmful influences, and even worse, when such influences are often actively pushing their agenda, I argue that it is more befitting to instil one's values in their dependants, rather than be passive which will allow for outside voices to enter their fragile hearts. It may seem like a challenge to balance being easy and pushing their capabilities, but it must be done, for there are consequences for both ends.
Being too lenient might teach a child that religion is unimportant, or that religion is about certain practices at specific timings, not a holistic way of life. For example, focusing on 1 obligatory prayer of the day makes it seem that it is the most important (while in actually all 5 of them are) or not encouraging them to cover their awrah. Children are learning all the time, and this applies to words and actions, but also what is said and done and what is not.
Yes, a child needs to experience the innocence of childhood - and have a memorable one at that - as it facilitates their success as adults. But it must be noted that what a child experiences or makes a habit during their youth is naturally become the default that they turn to, or whereby it becomes their standard to which everything else is compared to.
On the other hand, being harsh, strict and too imposing on a child, especially without providing them breathing space or an outlet for self-expression may be detrimental to their growth. And even more so if not a good example is set. It may cause them to associate Islam with merely outward actions, and a burden, not as a beautiful way of life that guides humanity to success and one that fulfils the soul. While introducing a young one to as much Islamic knowledge and encouraging one to Islamic actions in the hopes that they will yearn for more and establish discipline is a notable intention, it must be done at the child's pace. After all, they too are on their own paths and that they too eventually will stumble and fall. What's more important is that we need to be there when they pick themselves up again. While there is only one straight path, Allah has made the methods to Him so vast.
hadiths about doors to paradise
A true mentor would know the strength and weaknesses of their mentees, and use it as a guide for success.
Lastly, one must be reminded that all belongs to Allah, no matter how close our attachment to someone or something might be.
Subheading
X
Companion X (may Allah be pleased with him) reported:
The Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him, said: "X"
Sahih Muslim 482
"And [remember] when your Lord proclaimed, 'If you are grateful, I will surely increase you [in favor]; but if you deny, indeed, My punishment is severe.' "
Translation of the Quran, Surah X : Ayah X
X.
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